The 5 Decisions

That Cost People the Most in Separation

And how to get them right.

Shaya Lewis-Dermody

FREE live online session

WEDNESDAY 25 NOVEMBER 2026 · 45 minutes (including live Q&A)

âś” 24 years as a family lawyer, now a divorce coach

âś” Cameras off. Completely anonymous. PJs welcome.

✔ Tips to help you save on legal fees 

12:30pm
UAE
8:30am
London
7:00pm
Adelaide
7:30pm
Sydney & Melbourne

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Separation can leave you feeling overwhelmed, uncertain and unsure what you should be doing next.

Whether you separated recently or you’re 18 months into it, there are so many things to think about — your children, your finances, your home, your ex, legal issues and, most importantly, what happens to you.

You may be at the very start, down the mediation path, or already working with lawyers. Perhaps you don't know where to start. Or perhaps you've been doing this for too long and still feel stuck.

Separating as an expat?

This session is for you too. Being far from family, with a legal system that isn't the one you grew up with, adds a whole extra layer. I'm an expat in the UAE myself, so I get it.

Join me for a free live online session where I'll walk you through the 5 decisions that cost people the most in separation – and how to get them right.

Cameras off  |  Confidentiality assured

I've turned the camera function off as I know this can be a sensitive topic. Jump on in your PJs or super casual clothes – no one will see you. If there is any recording, your name and identity will not be seen.

This session is for you if you’re separated, recently separated, or simply trying to work out what comes next.

In this session, we’ll talk about:

âś” What you should be thinking about after separation

✔ The decisions you need to make — and the ones you don't need to make immediately

âś” How to navigate communication with your ex

âś” Children, finances and the practical realities of separation

âś” Looking after yourself while you're trying to work everything else out

âś” How to save on legal fees

âś” A free handout to help you reflect on what you've heard afterwards

There will also be an opportunity to ask questions during the live session.

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Shaya Lewis-Dermody

About me

I am a former family lawyer (24 years), author and certified divorce separation coach. I created Separate Ways™ Divorce Coaching to help people navigate the emotional and practical reality of separation — not just the legal process. I do my best to ditch the legalese.

I hope to have time at the end to answer any questions you may have. Questions can be submitted beforehand or asked in the chat box during the session.

No hard sell. Just practical help. I hope to see you there đź–¤

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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